There’s an idea floating around that Donald Trump, having ascended to the presidency, is now owed the respect of his opponents. I beg to disagree. The powerful do not deserve respect merely by virtue of their being powerful. Like anyone else, the respect they receive should be proportionate to the level of dignity with which they conduct themselves, and treat others.
And yet some feel that Donald Trump deserves respect.
That’s right. The serial misogynist. The candidate who ran his campaign on bigotry and xenophobia, and who incited violence at his rallies. The 70 year-old who responds to detractors with ad-hominem jeers. The able-bodied billionaire who publicly mocked a disabled reporter. Our zillionth white president, who sought to delegitimize the first black one. The Vietnam dodger who insulted prisoners-of-war.
(On this last point. If you didn’t go to Vietnam, power to you. But to then degrade those who did, and were captured? That’s low.)
Trump’s behavior invites ridicule, not respect. He continues to act, react, and communicate in as indecent a manner as ever, signaling a lack of interest on his part to make meaningful amends with the people and groups he so gleefully cast aside during the campaign. Until such time as he reverses course on this matter, the notion that he deserves even a modicum of respect remains laughable.
I don’t know that Trump could win my respect even if he were to temper his rhetoric. I’m tired of the suggestion that it was primarily economic frustrations, rather than bigotry and xenophobia, that enabled his faux victory. Working class folks did have a champion, and it was Bernie Sanders.
Whereas Trump won over his voters with vacuous promises and a kind of rigorous self-promotion to put P.T. Barnum to shame, Bernie offered genuine solutions. Oh, and he did it without the race-baiting and Islamaphobia. If it is the case that Trump voters didn’t act out of antipathy toward minorities and immigrants, then why didn’t they go with the actual populist?
Well, Eli, maybe they voted for Sanders in the primary?
Perhaps, but that doesn’t mitigate the fact that Trump never actually proposed meaningful solutions to working folks’ malaise. Sure, he was anti-free trade, but other than that, it was standard Republican policy.
Anyone who supports massive tax cuts for the wealthy, disdains unions and the minimum wage, alienates large swathes of the country on the basis of ethnicity and religion, and displays zero interest in expanding health coverage, cannot reasonably claim to be fighting for the needs of average folks.
The country is in a volatile place, and we have yet to arrive at the terms of reconciliation. All the same, I know this to be true: We will continue to honor the ideals of dignity, decency, and respect, even when our future president does not.
Treating women, people of color, those with disabilities, the LGBTQ community, and religious minorities with the same degree of dignity, decency, and respect as befits any other group? Non-negotiable.
As someone who, broadly speaking, aligns himself with the philosophy of existentialism, I hope to someday see a world in which individuals are treated as such. If someone’s a jerk, it’s because they act like one. Not because they’re a woman, or a Muslim, or any other group, but because they have acted in such a way as to garner the label that most accurately describes who they are as an individual.
Trump-ism (indeed, bigotry in general) universalizes, ascribing identities to people before they act, in line with their ethnic, religious, and biological backgrounds. Trump might not be above it, but the rest of are. He might not be dignified, but the rest of us are.
Or, at least, we should be.
Best,
Eli.